My divorce recovery book, "Upside of Divorce", for short, is a "self-help" book. The helpful information can allow other divorced partners to see the upsides of divorce and how to find a happier and more enjoyable life after divorce, just like I did.
My book covers personal self-help about changing yourself, not others.
Getting rid of anger, not putting friends and family in the middle of your divorce, learning all the good ways to move on with your new life are chapters to help you move positively past divorce.
There are many other chapters about internet dating, better health and fitness and exploring many other positive things-to-do.
Learning how to be happier and enjoying every day in your life are other "self-help" chapters in my book.
You just need to want to do these things. When you are ready, you will do them.
My website above has also self-help information about :
Money Saving Ideas
Tips to Play Better Golf
How to Get Back Money from a Bad Investment
How to Use R&D Tax Credits
Getting Coaching for Personal Improvement
You may find some of these other self-help products interesting and valuable too.
Brian Daniel
Friday, August 31, 2012
Tuesday, August 28, 2012
Getting Past the Downsides of Divorce is Key!
My great divorce recovery occurred because I quickly saw the downsides were keeping me down about my divorce.
Downsides of less money, too much lonely time, not seeing the kids or old friends, not knowing what to do next...sound familiar?
These downsides can keep you down too! Loss of self esteem and depression can be a quick realities.
For me, the Serenity Prayer's wisdom was a focus point. You can't change others, but you can change you and your options.
Knowing that you DO have the rest of your life and that you can DO whatever you want is a helpful positive side, yes? Start with that. Look at your possible opportunities in the future, maybe more good things to try?
Next thing you know, you are busy thinking about the many more GOOD things that may be ahead for you.
You will then start to see the REAL possible upsides of your divorce. You are going past the downsides now, it is more fun thinking about the upsides!
The front part of my book is about all of this. You can DO this!
Brian Daniel
Downsides of less money, too much lonely time, not seeing the kids or old friends, not knowing what to do next...sound familiar?
These downsides can keep you down too! Loss of self esteem and depression can be a quick realities.
For me, the Serenity Prayer's wisdom was a focus point. You can't change others, but you can change you and your options.
Knowing that you DO have the rest of your life and that you can DO whatever you want is a helpful positive side, yes? Start with that. Look at your possible opportunities in the future, maybe more good things to try?
Next thing you know, you are busy thinking about the many more GOOD things that may be ahead for you.
You will then start to see the REAL possible upsides of your divorce. You are going past the downsides now, it is more fun thinking about the upsides!
The front part of my book is about all of this. You can DO this!
Brian Daniel
What QUESTIONS Might You Have For Me?
I have the google numbers on how many times my blog has been seen (and hopefully read!)
I may have lots of readers who come and go?
Or maybe just a handfull that stop by and read most of these blogs?
Well, I like to fish and I hope I have thrown a line in out there to see if someone will answer this blog and even better, may have a question for me to answer?
My email is handled by James@self-help-products-and-services.com
I wouldn't put anyone's question on my blog - only if someone said it was OK for me to do so.
Brian Daniel
I may have lots of readers who come and go?
Or maybe just a handfull that stop by and read most of these blogs?
Well, I like to fish and I hope I have thrown a line in out there to see if someone will answer this blog and even better, may have a question for me to answer?
My email is handled by James@self-help-products-and-services.com
I wouldn't put anyone's question on my blog - only if someone said it was OK for me to do so.
Brian Daniel
Thursday, August 23, 2012
My UPSIDES of Divorce?
After nine and a half years past my divorce settlement, it may be interesting for you to hear what MY Upsides of divorce are......
Better Health and Fitness -
I have lost 25 to 30 lbs, lost 2 inches off my waist, dropped my blood pressue 10 points on average, and my Body Mass Index is 22.9, well within the normal range now after being obese or slightly obese.
I'm still doing 100 pushups, 100 pullups, and 200 front kicks (kick-boxing) every day. I also do run-walks at 12 minute mile rate and do other aerobic exercise about 3 times a week.
Still Dating Too -
I have had monogamous relationships with eight different women over these past years and my latest one has been the longest one too. I still felt the infatuation with each lady too, just like a teenager and have had no regrets with any of them.
Got a Hobby Second Job -
I have spent almost nine years now working part-time at a golf country club where I could earn some more money and play at golf for almost nothing. I have met many new friends and some business contacts too.
Doing NEW things -
Learning woodworking and making garage storage cabinets and then a winemaking room as well as a wine cellar.
Making and bottling my own wine using six different dry reds. I make 200 bottles or so and then take a couple or three years to consume it all.
Trying an Internet Business -
After writing and self publishing my divorce recovery book, I made and designed my own website, pay center, and doing my own Small Business taxes.
Doing Community Service -
I have been planting trees, helping with the restoration of public parks and propagating and supplying perennial grasses, flowers and shrubs for all the ten or twelve Habitat Houses in my hometown. I think I have been doing the Habitat Houses for seven years now.
LIVING EVERY DAY -
This upside of divorce for me was very important, enough to use all cap letters because it is part of all the upsides above and how well and how happy and satisfied I have become with my second chance at life.
You can do these things too.
Brian Daniel
Better Health and Fitness -
I have lost 25 to 30 lbs, lost 2 inches off my waist, dropped my blood pressue 10 points on average, and my Body Mass Index is 22.9, well within the normal range now after being obese or slightly obese.
I'm still doing 100 pushups, 100 pullups, and 200 front kicks (kick-boxing) every day. I also do run-walks at 12 minute mile rate and do other aerobic exercise about 3 times a week.
Still Dating Too -
I have had monogamous relationships with eight different women over these past years and my latest one has been the longest one too. I still felt the infatuation with each lady too, just like a teenager and have had no regrets with any of them.
Got a Hobby Second Job -
I have spent almost nine years now working part-time at a golf country club where I could earn some more money and play at golf for almost nothing. I have met many new friends and some business contacts too.
Doing NEW things -
Learning woodworking and making garage storage cabinets and then a winemaking room as well as a wine cellar.
Making and bottling my own wine using six different dry reds. I make 200 bottles or so and then take a couple or three years to consume it all.
Trying an Internet Business -
After writing and self publishing my divorce recovery book, I made and designed my own website, pay center, and doing my own Small Business taxes.
Doing Community Service -
I have been planting trees, helping with the restoration of public parks and propagating and supplying perennial grasses, flowers and shrubs for all the ten or twelve Habitat Houses in my hometown. I think I have been doing the Habitat Houses for seven years now.
LIVING EVERY DAY -
This upside of divorce for me was very important, enough to use all cap letters because it is part of all the upsides above and how well and how happy and satisfied I have become with my second chance at life.
You can do these things too.
Brian Daniel
Wednesday, August 22, 2012
More Positive Directions One Can Take After Divorce
My book is all about the positive opportunities one can take after divorce. Others ex-partners point to their upsides of divorce in many different ways.
I saw another one on twitter the other day that had a bit more colorful language. It was a pair of ladies whose twitter address has to do with "DUMPED".
Their intro line of what they were about was short and sweet.......
Get Off Your "Butt" and Over Your Ex in Record Time!
My book aims for divorced partners to quickly get busy and change what you can about yourself to be a better person. This focus can indeed help you to quickly move on and get over your ex.
I myself had decided in just several weeks to start a new life and get busy about all the new things-to-do that I wanted to do.
I was able quickly to feel less dumped in my previous life and more liberated to explore my new life!
You can too!
Brian Daniel
I saw another one on twitter the other day that had a bit more colorful language. It was a pair of ladies whose twitter address has to do with "DUMPED".
Their intro line of what they were about was short and sweet.......
Get Off Your "Butt" and Over Your Ex in Record Time!
My book aims for divorced partners to quickly get busy and change what you can about yourself to be a better person. This focus can indeed help you to quickly move on and get over your ex.
I myself had decided in just several weeks to start a new life and get busy about all the new things-to-do that I wanted to do.
I was able quickly to feel less dumped in my previous life and more liberated to explore my new life!
You can too!
Brian Daniel
Tuesday, August 21, 2012
Another Radio Interview Coming Up
I have had the pleasure to discuss my book on radio shows in the past.
I may have another chance in the next month or two with a radioshow that is for Divorced Partners and how they can move on positively with their new life.
My book is all about that transition from anger/low self esteem/guilt/loneliness to a happier, more enjoyable life AFTER divorce!
I have always been able to get more immediate book sales soon after a radio show!
I will keep you posted about this.
Brian Daniel
I may have another chance in the next month or two with a radioshow that is for Divorced Partners and how they can move on positively with their new life.
My book is all about that transition from anger/low self esteem/guilt/loneliness to a happier, more enjoyable life AFTER divorce!
I have always been able to get more immediate book sales soon after a radio show!
I will keep you posted about this.
Brian Daniel
Saturday, August 18, 2012
Sold Another Book Yesterday!
It always makes me proud that new readers still buy my book!
It has been almost four years since I started selling them.
But my title and my stories on my author's page are still interesting to others who may be suffering a divorce.
My book is more often picked than one written by a divorce proessional, but much less than other "better" sellers. Having a publisher can be a large edge in selling books.
But I am satisfied and continue to encouraged by each and every book sale I get.
Thanks to my latest reader!
PS: ...my last chapter offers email feedback to all who buy my book....
Brian Daniel
It has been almost four years since I started selling them.
But my title and my stories on my author's page are still interesting to others who may be suffering a divorce.
My book is more often picked than one written by a divorce proessional, but much less than other "better" sellers. Having a publisher can be a large edge in selling books.
But I am satisfied and continue to encouraged by each and every book sale I get.
Thanks to my latest reader!
PS: ...my last chapter offers email feedback to all who buy my book....
Brian Daniel
Thursday, August 16, 2012
Moving On Positively Past Divorce/Separation
When I was divorcing, I went to bookstores to look for something "POSITIVE" about divorce.
There was not much positive about divorcing, some ten years ago when I was in divorce.
It took me about six years to finish my positive divorce book and even in 2008, publishers, churches and friends, shook their heads and said there is nothing positive about divorce!
Since my book was out, and over the last four more years, there have been several books and blogs too about the positive aspects of divorce.
You can see some of these when you search my book "Upside of Divorce" om Amazon. Blogs have used "upside of divorce" in their titles too. One lady celebrity even added a smiley face to her signiature on her divorce papers.
There are many positive books and blogs and stories about positive sides of divorce/separation. You won't need to search a lot to find something that will help you, friends or family.
Feel free to email me at tibodad@yahoo.com or on twitter @BrianDaniel12
There was not much positive about divorcing, some ten years ago when I was in divorce.
It took me about six years to finish my positive divorce book and even in 2008, publishers, churches and friends, shook their heads and said there is nothing positive about divorce!
Since my book was out, and over the last four more years, there have been several books and blogs too about the positive aspects of divorce.
You can see some of these when you search my book "Upside of Divorce" om Amazon. Blogs have used "upside of divorce" in their titles too. One lady celebrity even added a smiley face to her signiature on her divorce papers.
There are many positive books and blogs and stories about positive sides of divorce/separation. You won't need to search a lot to find something that will help you, friends or family.
Feel free to email me at tibodad@yahoo.com or on twitter @BrianDaniel12
Wednesday, August 15, 2012
My Positive Divorce Recovery Book Helped Me!
A lot of people have asked me if writing my book helped me. It did.
It helped me move on. It helped me to heal. It also helped me become more POSITIVE!
When I focused on changing only myself, not others, I looked positively on the opportunity to become a better person.
As I became more fit, more healthy, more happy, more content, more spirited, more energized---------these feelings began to grow on each other.
As I look back to my divorce and then to where I am now, years later, it is quite clear to me how much happier and how more enjoyable my life is.
My book writing helped me, for sure!
My book writing can help you too!
Brian Daniel
It helped me move on. It helped me to heal. It also helped me become more POSITIVE!
When I focused on changing only myself, not others, I looked positively on the opportunity to become a better person.
As I became more fit, more healthy, more happy, more content, more spirited, more energized---------these feelings began to grow on each other.
As I look back to my divorce and then to where I am now, years later, it is quite clear to me how much happier and how more enjoyable my life is.
My book writing helped me, for sure!
My book writing can help you too!
Brian Daniel
Sorry, My Last Post Used apostrophes, My Bad!
I learned before not to use apostrophes. They show up with several junky letters where the apostrophe is.
So, my bad. I'm sorry about the previous blog! I think I will remember not to do this anymore.
Brian Daniel
So, my bad. I'm sorry about the previous blog! I think I will remember not to do this anymore.
Brian Daniel
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