Monday, December 9, 2013

Need Help for Saving Money? (Most Divorced Partners Do)

Divorce has a way of making one more frugal, yes?

My posts about great divorce recovery involves having enough money for your post divorce life.

It occurred to me that I may be of some help with financial issues too for divorced and separated partners.

I have a MBA degree in Financial Management and have found many ways to save money for the future.

Over eleven years, I have found more frugal ways to live.

Maybe I can help you?

We can communicate in LinkedIn in a group "Beyond Divorce - Positive Divorce Recovery"

I am on twitter as BrianDaniel12 (twelve are last 2 digits)

Brian Daniel

Friday, December 6, 2013

The Serenity Prayer's Guidance for Moving On After Divorce

This prayer originated as help for alcoholics.

Their personal problems often keep them down with low self esteem, depression, hopelessness, anger and other negative thoughts surrounding their current state.

People in divorce have these problems too.

The very pointed message and emphasis of this prayer is to have the wisdom to know what things you can change and the things that you can't change. And to have the courage to change those things that you can change.

I used this prayer to quickly turn me from the negative side to the positive side of divorce.

Thinking about the many upsides of divorce will help to focus on changes that you can control.

Trying to make these changes is the start.
After you do the first one, the second change will come faster. 

(You can easily find the Serenity Prayer on the net.)

Brian Daniel

Thursday, December 5, 2013

How Are You Moving On? Do you want to Move On?

I probably have those 2 titles above backwards?

Divorce can cause you to pause.
Divorce can pause you for very long times.

Let's consider FIRST....Do you want to Move On?

If YES, that would suggest you have some willing to move on.
And that is good!

Spend some time on the second part of the title above, now that you are considering a positive step forward.

How Are You Moving On?

Consider some of the previous blogs on this site--these might help you here.

Brian Daniel