How Does One Start Divorce Recovery?

Although there can be many different paths to meaningful divorce recovery, the underlying common thread seems to be the decision to move on. The decision to start over, using this second chance at life, and moving on past your previous life is a "door" that many go through to begin their  life anew.

The time it takes to go through that door can be weeks, months, years and sometimes, some never reach that point of moving on. For most divorced partners, time is needed to change where you will live, moving in or out, getting acclamated to new surroundings and this fills your  new months after divorce. Adjusting to new schedules, doing new things that were done by your partner can take some more months.

Eventually though, one will find themself with more hours available now and again to do something else.
What will that be?
          More time to think what went wrong between me and my partner?
          Wondering why the splitting up occurred?  Who is at fault?
          When will I want to face family and friends about all these things above?

Or will your time be spent in other ways?
         Should I get a hobby?  Get a pet? Get on that dating service? Join a Divorce group?
          Get a part time job? Do some community service? Get more fitness and healthy?
         Try something new?  See some old friends? Do some home fix-ups? Gardening?

I have done both of these groups of things.
I seemed to feel bad or became negative when I spent time about all the things that were in the past?
I wanted to fix our problems and wanted to change all this splitting up stuff.
THOSE WERE THINGS I COULDN'T CHANGE.
I did ALL of the things in the second group and I quickly became positive about all of them.
THESE WERE THINGS I COULD CHANGE.

I do ALL of those things still today and I am much happier than I ever thought I would be.

Brian Daniel

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I now offer that any  purchases of my book, "Yes, There Is an Upside of Divorce..." from my website comes with a full price refund if you are not satisfied that my book has been helpful to you.

So, buy my book off my website and know that you aren't out the purchase price if not satisfied, OK?
Note: You can buy my book through Amazon on my website but they aren't offering the money back guarantee!

I can make that offer for my book, and any other products/services purchases, from my site
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because I have never received any negative feedback at all for the hundreds of books and dozens of other products sold there.

I have offered a 50% return of the price for several months previously, with still no requests for a refund and now feel confident enough that 100% price back is OK since all of my web products are of high value and are low priced.

For the 100% Money Back Guarantee:
Use this same email to tell us if you were not satisfied with the book or other items purchased on this website and why you were not satisfied, then we will refund 100% of the item price back to you in a check  (less postage, and after the return first of any book copies or other printed media). 

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Thanks for a look at this,
Brian Daniel

A Great Contributor To My Book Has Passed On Today

Dr. Joyce Brothers passed away today.

When writing my book, I found a few great articles by her in Sunday magazines. She had great articles about feeling infatuation again after divorce(my favorite). She wrote about love again and having sex again too. Her articles were short and very much to point and always entertaining.

She was the only author that did not require fees for using her material (that's why I have very few references!). I had sought out her agent and he said she would want to talk to me personally about my book. Her agent gave me her home phone number.

I called her on a mid-morning Saturday and was thrilled when she answered her phone. I talked about my book and her material and subjects that I wanted to use and she was very positive and encouraging. I asked again about any fees to use her work and she said no, but would be happy to contribute.

The chapters that contain her material are some of my book's best.

God bless Joyce Brothers.

Brian Daniel

What is the WORST problem that you, friends or family members had coming out of divorce?

Try using just one word...... Mine was "finances"....


There will be many "worst" problems of divorce and we will see what they may be...



I have experience in many of those that might be mentioned and can help others too, if they want.

My financial problems were obvious...alimony and child support was 60% of my take-home pay....my own living expenses were another 20%.......a 401K loan was another 15%.....the rest was all I had for miscellaneous and eating out and entertainment (not much).

I had to become a better saver, be more frugal, and GET A PART TIME JOB!

These were GOOD things that made me more financially successful. I wrote a short booklet about "10 BEST Money Saving Ideas" that I still sell on my website, Self-Help-Products-and-Services.com

The old saying of what does not kill you will make you stronger...I believe all the hardest and worst problems with divorce that anyone may mention here are all the same things that makes one stronger.

Brian Daniel