You will find that you need to drop all negative thoughts before you can look and see the POSITIVE and UPSIDES for your next chapters of life!
ONE SHOULD ALWAYS TRY TO MAKE SOMETHING NEGATIVE INTO SOMETHING POSITIVE. This story turn out better than expected and may have also influenced the relationship after their divorce,
My book, mostly about the many UPSIDES of divorce, can help you to find the positive sides too that are available in and after divorce.
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Positive changes you can make will build your self esteem, confidence and the want to do even more positives for yourself and your family.
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Brian Daniel
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Here is the article, Brian.
Divorce doesn't have to send you into hiding.
- Our lack of discussion around divorce can lead those who get divorced to feel shame about it.
- Experts told INSIDER that those going through a divorce should cut out toxic people.
- Though a high rate of marriages now end in divorce, it's still a
pretty taboo subject surrounded in secrecy and falsehoods. Even the
often spouted divorce rate in the US (50%) isn't exactly true. It's actually a number that depends on your age, when you got married, how long you dated, and other factors.
Because divorce is considered a "shameful" thing in some societies or social circles, it can lead many people to fall into a depressive episode. But if you feel ashamed of your divorce, keep these four things in mind as you move forward and heal:
First of all, divorce is not a failure.
Relationship expert and author April Masini told INSIDER that people are so afraid of talking about divorce — and even more so about getting one themselves — because they are afraid that divorce will be a "failure" and that it will make them somehow inferior to their peers.
"People who are ashamed of divorce feel that way because they think the marriage failing is a sign that they are inferior," she said. "The reality is that we all have failures in life. Some are in relationships.
Some are in jobs. Some are in academics. Some are physical. Some are financial. Some are in health. This is what makes us all different, alike — and human. To deny failure, is to deny humanity.
When you look at divorce that way, you may not feel so ashamed."
Ending a marriage is a sign that your relationship is over — at least romantically. But instead of viewing that as a bad thing, you need to focus on the positive:
You made a choice that was likely best for you, your former partner, and anyone else involved in the decision, such as children.
We often talk about what goes into making a marriage work, but we don't focus on what happens when it ends, - realize they're not alone in this, and take it one day at a time.
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