Monday, September 10, 2012

Getting Married Again? Yes?, No?, Maybe?

Here's a topic with varied opinions.

I have met divorced ladies who have been married two more times after their first divorce in just a couple or three years.

I dated one of these ladies for about seven months which was longer than her third husband. I didn't feel too bad about that after we broke up.

I find a lot of companionship with single ladies and have year long relationships or more. (Sorry, I don't have much experience about men who have been married again, or not--men don't talk about this stuff!)

But I believe age has an effect, more about it when younger than older, and grown up children too as to whether marriage is wanted, needed or not.

 Younger ladies with young children can find another partner with some kids too and they can share the total work together. Is this a marriage of convenience?

Older ex-partners with kids out of the home may not want to marry but live together (or not).

Marriage does bring some entanglements when the two partners split. Having been through one divorce, I am not anxious to be "bound together" and suffer the consequences of another break-up.

Brian Daniel

Friday, September 7, 2012

Joining Another Blog On Divorce!

No, I am NOT leaving my own blog! I have been asked to blog on certain topics after divorce from a new blogger.

I will point you to that "Guest Blog" when I get the details.

I was asked to discuss whatever topics I may have experience or expertise about. I sent them eight topics and they liked the following three:

        "Internet Dating" ..........."is a topic we (they) haven't covered too much and would be great."


         "Getting over the downsides of divorce" .............."is a good one for us as well."

         "New things to do" ................"as well."

It was interesting to me that these three topics above were selected by the blogger requesting  topics and they have a magazine all about divorce. 

These blogs are some of the best blogs I have written, have received the most favorable replies and ones that my book readers "liked the best".

I will look forward to this invitation.

Brian Daniel

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

On the Radio on October 26th!

I will be on at 10am (EST, I think!) for an half hour and will supply the details later on in October.

This radio show is all about how ex-partners can positively move on past divorce.

There will be several guests and on all Fridays at 10 am and I'll blog here as soon as possible when it starts.

These shows may start as soon as this Friday. I believe the radio show will be weekly and all the way through November.

Like most shows, I will be calling in and then connected to the show.

Generally, these shows have an internet connection too and the audio will play through your PC speakers.

I will try to get the internet connection for all the weeks before my spot.

I will request the connection from the show host.

I might have these connections tomorrow!

Brian Daniel

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Buy My Divorce Recovery Book On My Website!

This way, you get the same book from Amazon for about $5 less!

I have cut my website price for my book to $13.50 and the handling fees are smaller than Amazon's.

I will mail your book to you within 24 hours after your PayPal notice comes to my website.

You will see near the end of my book that I have my email address available for your feedback.

Let me know, GOOD or BAD, about how my book was in helping your friends, family or yourself, OK?

Thanks for your book purchase, through my website or from Amazon.

Brian Daniel

Monday, September 3, 2012

My "Upside of Divorce" Book is a Coaching Plan!

When I wrote my divorce recovery book, I wanted it be a real self help book about how to make the most of one's second chance at life after divorce.

The book starts with how to deal with the common "downsides" of divorce which are mostly emotional and interpersonal in nature. These are the most common for all divorced/separated partners.

The turning point occurs with understanding that it is best to change what you can control. And that is changing yourself and all the things that revolve around yourself.

You will then find all the many more upsides of having that second chance to find a happier more enjoyable life than the previous one you just left.

And the various chapters in my book go into great enough detail to show you HOW to make these changes for yourself and your NEW  better life after divorce.
This is how my book "coaches" one through moving on positively past divorce/separation.

I have talked to several readers of my book about their own specific longer term issues and our discussions over the internet were good and produced good results for my readers.

Coaching anyone who is interested can contact me at       tibodad@yahoo.com    or
james@self-help-products-and-services.com

On my website there are many products and services that I offer than can be specific to your own particular problems that still linger on for you.

I can coach anyone on a variety of personal topics, in addition to those that others have commonly purchased from my website.

Brian Daniel

Saturday, September 1, 2012

Longevity Depends on Marital Status?

I saw another blog today that had data revealing that never marrieds had a 60% higher incidence of earlier death, widows and widowers had a 30% chance and divorced partners had a 40% chance of shorter life than married couples.

Have you seen any of those studies?  Do you believe them?

I would believe that these averages may be true generally, but that there is more to it than just your marital status. Things like diet, use of medications, fitness, outlook on life, times spent with family and friends, hobbies, regular exercise, community service and so many other social interactions, health, genes, and so on may have the greatest impact.

Is it really just marital status?  I don't think so!

I could believe that if only marital status is studied and no other factors are studied, never marrieds may have more exposure to being alone more often which can be less fulfilling and maybe be worse off?, widows and widowers may spend time together more and counter the loneliness and maybe least affected?, and divorced partners, without a partner, and having some negative baggage left still to carry around may be a bit more susceptible?

In any case, I find marital status not a thing to worry about. Too many things can be used to increase one's longevity.

I'm doing several of the good things that can help increase length of living.

And I'm focusing on each and every day to live its fullness. When I do go, I want to be tired, not bored.

Brian Daniel