Saturday, November 23, 2013

Navigate the Negative Issues then See the Positive Opportunities

All people in divorce face and have to work through the negative issues of divorce.

The money and property issues, custody rights, support items, emotional issues, sadness, anger and so on are plenty of difficult times to negotiate through as best you can.

These issues can take many months, and for some, it can be years.

But in the many lonely hours, one may be able to see a positive or two in some of the many living changes that also need to become part of your "new life".

Your new life will, over time, open up even more positive opportunities.

Look into, try and use some of these opportunities.

Take your time with this, don't be in a hurry.

You naturally may leave those negatives issues more quickly, and even more quickly, focus on the positives instead.

Once I found some upsides, I embraced them. Positives are much easier to deal with than negatives.

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