More and More POSITIVE Divorce! (....and RETIREMENT!)

There's a lot of "positive" adjectives in twitter account names that deal with divorce. And, I continue to get numerous google alerts with "positive" in the various search words and phrases.

I would say that there are as many positive linkedin groups about divorce as there are negative ones. And, there many positive themes in questions, responses and discussion topics too.

People in all these social spots offer examples of how positive interventions, relationships, actions, responses, behaviors and so on can do much good in all sorts of divorce problems and issues.

One still can choose to point out the negative actions, emotions, distress, stress, unkindness, poor behavior, and outrageous things that ex-partners do to each other. The majority by far of chat sites are always mired in the thousands of bad things that people in divorce do to each other.

This is a part of the divorce recovery for everyone. Some do it for a few days or weeks (like I did) and some do it for a very long time.

But the positive movement in divorce is getting the upper hand, I believe.





After 39 years and 9 months, I decided to retire.

The last 5 weeks were to get my nest egg open, find new medical insurance and get a new phone (among a lot of other info changes, new email contacts, etc.).

And YES!, there is an upside to retirement!

There may actually be one or two more than for divorce.