One of the most difficult downsides of divorce or separation is the alienation, loneliness, shame and feelings of failure about your break-up with a partner. Anger, resentment and hostility can also cloud your days with more negative thoughts. These can be very terrible and can easily weigh one down with depression.
One can feel so alone in this traumatic change in life.
BUT THE POINT HERE IS THAT THERE ARE MILLIONS OF OTHERS GOING THROUGH THESE SAME FEELINGS. YOU CAN FIND THESE OTHERS ON INTERNET SUPPORT GROUPS, IN LOCAL CHURCH PROGRAMS AND OTHERS AT WORK OR FRIENDS OF FRIENDS TOO.
It is important for you to see you are not alone in this, and that you may not be such a terrible partner. Every breakup has two sides of its story and quite frankly, both sides are both at fault in most cases.
I had the same feelings too. But after I realized the millions of others who have these same problems, IT HELPED ME TO COME TO GRIPS WITH MY OWN SITUATION AND RATIONALIZE WHAT I HAD LEARNED. You can do this too.
Later on, we all will see then, HOW IT IS UP TO EACH OF US TO MOVE PAST THIS AND HOW WE CHOOSE TO START A NEW LIFE. THIS IS WHERE YOU LEAVE THE OTHERS AND YOUR PAST BEHIND AND MOVE FORWARD.
My book can help you make all of these transitions easier and more quickly.
I can help you through the downsides and then how to find your UPSIDES too.
You can do this just as soon as you decide to.
Brian Daniel
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