Thursday, February 10, 2011

Yes, There Is an Upside of Divorce, It Can Be Your Second Chance at Life!

Is this title contrary?
Some people have responded "there are NO upsides of divorce!"

In my case with divorce and with many other people too, divorce or separation is terrible, agonizing, devestating and can be debilitating!

But after some time of grieving, wondering who, what, when, where and how it happened, one has a choice to make. And a few questions will likely pop up for one to answer....here's those questions.....

OK, so now, what?

Do I want to continue to stew in the anger, resentment, depression and feelings of being a failure?

Can I possibly reconcile with my partner?
(If it is possible, you can try and come back here later, if not!)

Is there something else I want to try and do?


THIS IS WHERE ONE GETS TO DECIDE WHAT ONE WANTS TO DO AFTER DIVORCE OR SEPARATION.

One can continue to feel left behind, feel sorry for what happened and feel there is no hope and continue to see that "there are NO upsides of divorce!"

Or, ONE CAN TAKE THE POSITIVE ROUTE, LIKE I DID, AND DISCOVER ALL ABOUT HOW ONE CAN USE THIS SECOND CHANCE AT LIFE AND BUILD A HAPPIER AND MORE ENJOYABLE LIFE...

It is your choice.

Brian Daniel

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